What did I do while I was there? I was there. I was present to be or do whatever was needed. I baked chocolate chip cookies for the staff and family each day, which evaporated in a feeding frenzy. Listening to, interacting with and following the lead of others filled hours. And we laughed and cried. These are two of God’s gifts that make up the grieving process. It’s so refreshing to be in an environment where emotions can be so freely expressed. Arkansas at this time of year is lush, with the variations